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But speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,” (Ephesians 4:15).

Paul calls the Church to intentionally engage into the process of spiritual growth and maturity. Growing into Him and reaching out to the head, Christ (Eph. 4:15), bearing the image of the heavenly One (1 Cor. 15:49 p.m.), displaying the very nature of the Father (1 John 4: 8), is the highest calling God makes to all of His beloved children. Actually, this is the Ultimate Intention.

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The Ultimate Intention:

But perhaps someone will ask: What is the Ultimate Intention? The Ultimate Intention of the Church is a mature disciple who knows God intimately and personally (John 17:3), who accepted the discipleship call and carries the cross daily (Luke 9:23, Galatians 2:20), whose mind and character are continuously renewed and transformed by the Spirit and the Word of God (Romans 12:2, 2 Corinthians 3:18, Galatians 5:22-23), who grows and matures into the fullness of Christ (Ephesians 4:11-16, Hebrews 5:11-14, 6:1-3), and who, ultimately, multiplies disciples according to Christ’s and the apostles’ discipleship model (Matthew 28:19-20, 2 Timothy 2:2).

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Grow up in all aspects:

Personally, I understood that the Holy Spirit desires spiritual growth of the church of Christ. In Eph. 4: 11-15 Paul uses at least five (5) expressions that suggest spiritual growth such as: (i) equipping of the saints, (ii) a mature man, (iii) the stature of the fullness of Christ, (iv) grow up in all aspects, (v) to reach the head, even Christ. Please notice how, in only five verses, Paul bombards us with these provocative and penetrating words: s-p-i-r-i-t-u-a-l  g-r-o-w-t-h. There is no doubt that the most important aspect of the spiritual life of any local church should be its spiritual growth and maturity in all aspects and for all believers and world evangelism.

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No more delays:

Then, in Hebrews 5: 12-14 the author of this epistle communicates very directly, without consoling the reader too much, that he is pretty frustrated with the state of spiritual infancy of those believers even after many years of attending church services. He writes, “For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you have need again for someone to teach you the elementary principles of the oracles of God, and you have come to need milk and not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word of righteousness, for he is an infant” (Heb. 5:12-13). I am convinced that we do NOT need more reasons. I think we all agree that based on this diversity of biblical passages the conclusion is clear – God Himself desires us to g-r-o-w  s-p-i-r-i-t-u-a-l-l-y.
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The Holy Spirit’s calling was, is, and remains the same: “to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ” (Eph. 4:15). The Lord challenges us to embrace the destiny to which He has called us; to engage consciously, consistently, and with consecration in the process of spiritual growth and maturity; to move from one phase to another (Heb. 6:1-3); to go from stage to stage (2 Peter 1:5-7); to leave spiritual infancy (John 1:12-13, 1 Cor. 13:13) and become mature and free disciples of Christ (Rom. 8:14, John 8: 31-32). So help us God. Amen!?!

With love in Christ's service,
Valy Vaduva
Spiritual Mentor / Life Coach

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[1] The Greek word mathetes (translated disciple) is found more than 250 times in the New. According to Greek Bible scholar Spiros Zodhiates, editor of the Hebrew-Greek Key Word Study Bible, mathetes “means more than mere pupil or learner. It means an adherer who accepts the instruction given to him and makes it his rule of conduct.” In other words a New Testament type disciple is one who learns by putting what he or she learns into experience.


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4. Benefit number fourVictory over the FLESH: 

The cross of Christ assures us victory over the flesh. We should not confuse the flesh with the human body or the old man. Keep in mind that, “our old self was crucified with Him” (Rom. 6:6a). Simply put, the flesh is living out of our own natural resources.

Perhaps one of the most annoying battle Christians face is the battle between the flesh and the Spirit. Paul writes, “For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please” (Gal. 5:17). The flesh cannot be subject to the Holy Spirit. If we let the flesh down from the cross, the flesh desires to dominate, control, impose its views, and lead. The bottom line is that the flesh wants to indulge and fulfill its desires. Paul writes, “because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so” (Rom. 8:7). 

L. E. Maxwell, in his book “Born Crucified”, writes, ...



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Valy Vaduva

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Upper Room Fellowship Ministry (URFM) is committed to make disciples and to equip them for the Kingdom of God.
URFM, under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, ministers for the spiritual growth.
The goal is that every member of Christ’s Body would attain the ultimate intention – the fullness of Christ.

Making disciples and equipping them for God’s Kingdom.

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Our desire here at Upper Room Fellowship Ministry is to help you experience spiritual maturity. We would like you to know Jesus Christ not only as your SAVIOR or as your LORD. Our prayer and deep desire is for you to know Christ personally as your SOURCE of LIFE.

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